Today I watched a video that said that you can’t worry about these 5 things in life :
1. Your past
2. Judgement of others
3. Limited beliefs
4. Relationship
5. Money
Those things are the things that you can’t control, so it shouldn’t make you worried.
If you worry about your past, you can’t live your present and may ruin your future.
Thus, if you care too much about other’s opinion, you can’t live your life because you’d be too busy thinking about others and it’s not good. Everybody has their right to live their life (but make sure that you’d be responsible of your choices). Happiness is belong to you, NOT others.
And then always have the open-minded mindset that you CAN do anything. If you have that belief, then you REALLY can do anything. That’s why it’s important to have the unlimited belief. Everyone has their potential. You just need to figure out in what field you want to be good at. Everything starts within you, always remember this and be sure in yourself.
Next thing that you don’t need to worry about is relationship. Right things and person will come at the right moment and time. You’d better be prepare for that by doing your best. Have a heart and mind that open to everything and attach to nothing. Take someone’s belief or opinion in your consideration, but always have your own point of view. Always have faith in you that everything comes at the right place and time. If it’s meant to be yours, thn it will come to you.
And last, money shouldn’t be a thing that makes you worry. Money is essential, but it’s not everything. DO NOT CHASE MONEY in life. If you do something wholeheartedly and you really do your best, then money will come. Especially if you also help others in the process. Money should be something complementary, not the most important so that you forget about kindness or yourself when you look for it.
That was a good video, but I don’t really know if the sweet words are true because as you know, in real life, we can’t truly not care abut those stuffs eventho I really wish that I could. I want to enjoy my life. I’d love to do things that I love, but people will keep judging and commenting behind my back. My past will always haunt me and it’s so terrible to have an empty pocket life.
Someone said that the three best teachers in life are : FAILURE, EMPTY POCKET and EMPTY STOMACH.
And I couldn’t agree more about that. Life is a roller-coaster thing. There will be the ups and downs time in life. You need to be strong and sure that you can go through everything. That everything happens for a reason and you’re here, in this world, for a purpose. A good one.
A perfect life doesn’t exist and you don’t need that. But try to create a good life instead, because doing and becoming good is better than being right. Life is full of challenge that might surprise you, but you have to remember that you only have one chance to BE you, so always try to do good.
No matter how hard your life is.
Everyone is fighting an invisible battle (inside or outside) them and you’ll NEVER exactly know about what they feel inside, because you WILL NEVER be in their shoe. It’s not something you can’t judge. That’s why try not to judge others. You’ll never know how they feel inside.
Life is only yours and it’s not your duty to comment or say anything about someone else’s life. Live your own life and do good. That’s enough to have a good life. Let the Creator of the world of the Universe decide your path, but always try to spread and have positive mindset in your life. Don’t let other people thing bring you down. Always have faith in you. You are your own enemy to have a great life.
Life is only yours and it’s not your duty to comment or say anything about someone else’s life. Live your own life and do good. That’s enough to have a good life. Let the Creator of the world of the Universe decide your path, but always try to spread and have positive mindset in your life. Don’t let other people thing bring you down. Always have faith in you. You are your own enemy to have a great life.
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