What would you say to your 20-year-old self?

Dear my 20-year old self, please BE HAPPY, BE COURAGEOUS, BE BRAVE to try and to take risks. You will only regret the things that you didn’t do. If you do things and you fail, it’s a lesson.

DON’T TAKE LIFE SO SERIOUSLY. You won’t get out alive. Enjoy the time that you have. Meet people and have another point of views about life. See the life from other view.

BE CURIOUS to always eager to learn. There are so much things that you don’t know in this life. LISTEN to others, but you can always have your own opinion. Sometimes you can agree to disagree. The most important thing is to always be the open-minded person. DON’T LIMIT YOURSELF/YOUR BELIEF. See through the other eyes.

ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL for everything, Good or bad, it happens for a reason. You might not find it straight away, but may be later. Even if you don’t figure out the reason, it’s okay.

BE RESPONSIBLE for your thoughts, words, and action. THINK before you doing something, especially if it’s included other person in it. Because people is the most complex creature on earth. They have their own mind and that’s why it’s important to be careful when you deal with them.

You DON’T NEED TO CARE ABOUT EVERYTHING. Focus on the things that you can control. ALWAYS TRY TO HAVE POSITIVE THOUGHTS.

BE KIND to yourself first and to others next. REMEMBER you are your longest commitment and responsibility. Always try to put yourself first. It might means that you’re being selfish. But you won’t be able to do good to others, if you don’t/can’t treat yourself well in the first place. REMEMBER THIS.

GO OUT and TRY TO FIND YOUR PURPOSE, the meaning of your life. Why do you live? Try to seek for the answer of that question.

Jay Shetty said "Passion is what keep you alive, but purpose is what can you give to others." 

Let go

I know that i must let go of my feeling
The temporary sparks that i feel toward you
It's not the right timing for us
Now is not our time
Idk about the possibility in the future,
but i know
We must let go of our hope
I must let you go
I know it's hard
And it's not easy
As i have known you for pretty long
as we were pretty close back then

But then i realized that
this is the time for reflection
for both of us
to take some time and think about everything
let me here
and see you there
We're apart
Not only by distance,
but also by heart
And now,
It's the best time to let go

Some feelings are best hidden in the right place
It could be back someday
Or it could be replaced
Let's wait and see.

Beukenhof Restaurant

Beukenhof Restaurant is a European style restaurant that's located in Ullen Sentalu Museum.
After you finish your visit to the Museum, you might be hungry and interested to visit the resto or the art shop/boutique. This time, i visited the Restaurant.

The Outdoor View

There are lots of food choices and the price is pretty pricey. but i think it would be a rare occasion to do this kind of visit, so i think you must try something when you're here.

So, this resto has a vintage style and the ambiance of the place was pretty cozy. There's in  and outdoor space available, i chose the indoor room.

Indoor View 1

Indoor View 2

Indoor View 3

I ordered the Zenroro coffee (Cappuccino with cinnamon) and Irish Fish&Chips. I have to say that i like the original cappuccino (without cinnamon) better. As for the food, i think it had a great taste.

Zenroro Coffe 2

Zenroro Coffee 1

Irish Fish and Chips

Irish Fish and Chips 2

The service was good and pretty fast. At that time, there was only 3 customers. I'd like to give the other food another try :D

Museum Ullen Sentalu

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L..I.F.E.

Today I watched a video that said that you can’t worry about these 5 things in life :

1. Your past

2. Judgement of others

3. Limited beliefs

4. Relationship

5. Money

Those things are the things that you can’t control, so it shouldn’t make you worried.

If you worry about your past, you can’t live your present and may ruin your future.

Thus, if you care too much about other’s opinion, you can’t live your life because you’d be too busy thinking about others and it’s not good. Everybody has their right to live their life (but make sure that you’d be responsible of your choices). Happiness is belong to you, NOT others.

And then always have the open-minded mindset that you CAN do anything. If you have that belief, then you REALLY can do anything. That’s why it’s important to have the unlimited belief. Everyone has their potential. You just need to figure out in what field you want to be good at. Everything starts within you, always remember this and be sure in yourself.

Next thing that you don’t need to worry about is relationship. Right things and person will come at the right moment and time. You’d better be prepare for that by doing your best. Have a heart and mind that open to everything and attach to nothing. Take someone’s belief or opinion in your consideration, but always have your own point of view. Always have faith in you that everything comes at the right place and time. If it’s meant to be yours, thn it will come to you.

And last, money shouldn’t be a thing that makes you worry. Money is essential, but it’s not everything. DO NOT CHASE MONEY in life. If you do something wholeheartedly and you really do your best, then money will come. Especially if you also help others in the process. Money should be something complementary, not the most important so that you forget about kindness or yourself when you look for it.

That was a good video, but I don’t really know if the sweet words are true because as you know, in real life, we can’t truly not care abut those stuffs eventho I really wish that I could. I want to enjoy my life. I’d love to do things that I love, but people will keep judging and commenting behind my back. My past will always haunt me and it’s so terrible to have an empty pocket life.

Someone said that the three best teachers in life are : FAILURE, EMPTY POCKET and EMPTY STOMACH.

And I couldn’t agree more about that. Life is a roller-coaster thing. There will be the ups and downs time in life. You need to be strong and sure that you can go through everything. That everything happens for a reason and you’re here, in this world, for a purpose. A good one.

A perfect life doesn’t exist and you don’t need that. But try to create a good life instead, because doing and becoming good is better than being right. Life is full of challenge that might surprise you, but you have to remember that you only have one chance to BE you, so always try to do good.

No matter how hard your life is.

Everyone is fighting an invisible battle (inside or outside) them and you’ll NEVER exactly know about what they feel inside, because you WILL NEVER be in their shoe. It’s not something you can’t judge. That’s why try not to judge others. You’ll never know how they feel inside.

Life is only yours and it’s not your duty to comment or say anything about someone else’s life. Live your own life and do good. That’s enough to have a good life. Let the Creator of the world of the Universe decide your path, but always try to spread and have positive mindset in your life. Don’t let other people thing bring you down. Always have faith in you. You are your own enemy to have a great life.

Note : Images are taken from Google